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Racism and Religion
When I brush my teeth in the morning, I see my image reflected in the mirror. Brown skin and a squashed afro. A sermon or gospel music plays in the background as I prepare for the day. After my shower, I add my special concoction to the edges of my hair and use a brush to smooth my hair. I take my head wrap or pantyhose (whichever suits my mood) and pull my hair into it’s signature puff. I stare at my reflection as I smooth moisturizer onto my skin….my very brown skin. While I’m prepping, I’m praying. Praying for guidance…direction…grace. Because while life is difficult for everyone, it holds…
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Wheel of Emotions
In December of 2019, I had my first experience with group therapy with strangers. How did I arrive at that juncture in life? I’m happy to tell you. My first experience with individual therapy occurred when I was nineteen. I was finding my place in the world and making choices that my mom thought was not in my best interest. In her mind, I needed to speak to a professional to sort through my feelings. She found me a therapist and work began. Over the course of a year, I saw the therapist once a month. He was a nice man. However, I didn’t spend my time talking about my…
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Endurance
At some point earlier this year, I made a commitment to myself that I would exercise four times a week. I felt that was a reasonable lifestyle change that I could maintain. I didn’t come to this conclusion on my own. My friend wanted someone to hold her accountable for her weekly workouts. I said that I was in need of the same thing and an alliance was formed. Every week, I would make my way to the gym. Let me just tell you. There were some ugly days. If you want me to be honest, I had a couple of days that I drove to the gym after work. …
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What Convinced Him?
Sunday’s sermon took us back to the cross on Good Friday. Luke 23:32-47 begins with Jesus hanging on Calvary’s cross between two true criminals. Jesus was scourged, mocked, and ridiculed. He was wounded for our transgressions. He was bruised for our iniquities. He was rebuked and scorned. Ultimately, he died. And when the centurion, the Roman soldier, tasked with carrying out this punishment saw the events unfold…he cried out and proclaimed, “Certainly this was a righteous Man!” So, what convinced the centurion that Jesus was who He claimed to be? Maybe, he was convinced by the way that Jesus maintained His composure on what was surely the worst day of…
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Handle With Care
Babies are the sweetest thing. They’re innocent. They make the sweetest faces and sounds. They take in the great big world with awe and wonder. And though nothing makes me smile more than these cute little creatures, they also terrify me. Well, not all babies. Just the BRAND new ones. I like my babies with more world experience. Like at least 3 months old. Then they’re not as intimidating. Considering my stance on new babies, my next statement may surprise you. I used to hold babies at the hospital. I wasn’t a weirdo that stalked the baby unit. A friend posted on Facebook some years back that hospitals needed volunteers…
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Justice
“Hey Google! What is the meaning of justice?” Just behavior or treatment “a concern for justice, peace, and genuine respect for people.” Hmmmmm….genuine respect for people. The black experience is unlike any other experience in America. We are mistreated, disrespected, feared, and vilified. And when we point out our reality, people say that we’re doing too much. We’re speaking too loudly, or we only see the negative. They get upset when we say that black lives matter. Listen, we’re upset that we have to keep explaining unjust behavior to people that have eyes. Ya’ll, I started not to even say anything, because I get so fired up. Do you know…
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Answer the Call
Do you hear that? That…right there. The still, small voice that’s whispering your name? It’s the voice of God. Are you going to answer the call? Pastor and a panel discussed I Kings 17:8-16 during Wednesday night REfresh, and it BLESSED me. I’m praying it does the same for you. Let’s get into it. Elijah, the prophet, has been camping out at the Brook Cherith. There is a famine in the land. Every morning and evening, God sends ravens to give Elijah bread and meat. Elijah drinks freely from the brook. After some time, the brook dries up. God tells Elijah to go to Zarapeth, because He has commanded a…
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An Eye for the Finer Things
My eye always wanders to expensive items. Not because of the label on them. I just have an eye for quality. For as long as I can remember, my mom has shown me pictures of objects and asked which I prefer. Though the prices were not included, I tended to prefer the objects that were most expensive. I can’t explain why I like the things that I l like. I just like them. I’m going to say that I was born this way. When I was a baby, I had a sensitive stomach. Traditional formula was too much for my delicate insides, so I had to use a more expensive…
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Cycles
Welcome back to “We READS the Bible.” I was so glad to get out of Job. The journey between chapter 1 and 42 was intense. We were deep down in there. We finally emerged victorious, but we came through with some scars. We have evidence that we survived a mighty battle. So glad to be on the other side. And then, we traveled back to Genesis. Of all the books in the Bible, I know for sure that I’ve read this one. Unfortunately, I must have read it with one eye open because so many things are sticking out to me as a I read. Part of my dilemma is…
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Don’t Lose Your Edge
Sunday’s sermon was full of meat. I suppose it’s appropriate since today is Memorial Day. Traditionally, people have family reunions over the holiday weekend. They gather for fellowship…and food. Lots of it. Get your plates, forks, knives and napkins out ya’ll. The sermon recap will have you chewing on this meat for a while. We are continuing our journey through II Kings with the prophet Elisha. The sermon highlighted II Kings 6:1-7. Forget reality TV. We have “The Real Prophets of the Old Testament.” Today’s text lands us smack dab in the middle of a dilemma. The sons of the prophets (remember them from earlier in the season with the…