Can I share something with ya’ll?  I mean, even if you just said no, I cannot hear you.  I have played it safe most of my life.  I am not big on pushing myself outside of my comfort zone.  Pushing publish on my first blog post was THE MOST uncomfortable feeling ever.  When I survived the first day after posting, I was relieved.  I had made it through that. Being pushed makes me grumpy.  I get aggravated because I feel out of control and helpless.  I feel vulnerable, and I do not like that feeling.  If I am vulnerable that means that I have exposed the soft parts of myself. …