Everyone has a list of must-haves when they are in the market for a home.  My list of must-haves included a garage, fenced backyard, and a tub that I could fit in.  I know…I know.  The tub probably threw you for a loop, but I am a lover of a good soak in the tub.  And if I was going to throw my hard-earned money into a home, I wanted to at least be able to soak and relax at the end of a long day at work. My search for a home gave me access to the way that others live, and it was eye-opening.  Also eye opening was…