Houston is full of fond memories for me. I met amazing people and got to have the coolest experiences. And, of course, the food is AMAZING! If you’re looking to have a straight up food vacation, go to Houston. You won’t be disappointed. One of my favorite memories in Houston involves my friend inviting me to a salsa class.
My friend was vibrant and full of life. She knew I was a square and was determined to show me a good time in the city that had her heart. So, off to salsa we went. I had several reservations. I’m the queen of the introverts. Not only was this an extremely social event, but I was going to be up close and personal with a stranger. I couldn’t really wallflower this.
The teacher was personable and excited to break down the salsa for newbies like myself. I was paired with another guy who was new. If you’ve never done a ballroom dance, it’s an experience. You must maintain a specific posture. They called it having a proper “frame.” The man is the leader. I was supposed to put most of my weight on the balls of my feet. When maintaining a proper frame, it was SUPPOSED to be easier for the man to lead me.
But do ya’ll know me??? It was a mess. He was new, and I was too. It made for a bad combination. We stumbled and fumbled. I couldn’t trust him to not drop me. We were both learning the moves. Although I was supposed to follow my partner’s lead, I would just go with what the teacher said. Which caused lots of missteps. It wasn’t much fun.
Then I was paired with a veteran. I was so nervous. I didn’t want to ruin his experience. My time with the other newbie was so discouraging. The veteran and I locked in our frame and off we went. This man WAS a master. He pushed and prodded me all around the dance floor. I stayed on the balls of my feet. He was strong and sure. Even if I wanted to misstep, he had a firm hand and guided me into the right moves. Ya’ll, he twirled me. We glided across that floor. I laughed and had the most amazing time. I was in the hands of a master.
Of course, I’m going to bring this lesson on home. Life is better when you put your life in the hands of the ultimate Master. Clearly this dance let me know that I have major control and trust issues. I didn’t really enjoy myself until I put my hands in the hands of one who could truly guide me. I hope you all get to experience the joy of dancing with the Master. #wepreach
Bless you for showing who should always be in charge in our lives.
That’s easier said than done for me, but my life flows so much better when I leave it in His hands.