I so want to enter Thanksgiving with an attitude of gratitude and not one of defeat.  Holidays are a big part of my family culture.  Especially since holidays feature food. (I cannot stress enough how much we value food…LOL.)  But it is not just the food.  No, the holiday season is about spending time with the people you love.  And we are missing so many faces in our family this Thanksgiving. Grief adds a different spin on treasured traditions.  Listen, I thought last year was so weird getting together via Zoom.  We saw what each family had whipped up.  We prayed together.  Made fun of each other and logged off. …