And the servant of the Lord must not quarrel but be gentle to all, able to teach, patient II Timothy 2:24 NKJV Mild mannered.  Gentle.  Calm.  Do these words describe the way that you act when provoked?  When someone uses the right combination to get under your skin, are those words characteristic of your typical response?  Wednesday night REfresh Bible study challenged me to be more conscious of my reaction in contentious situations. Over the years, I have crafted the ability to hold my tongue….usually.  I can listen to someone that is out of line and just stare.  All kinds of crazy thoughts will run through my mind, but I’ll…